I have been the visiting teacher for Nicole Fillmore. She is a lady in our ward who has struggled with addiction and I actually have known her through work. I have never seen her at church although her mother did come a time or two last year when she lived with Nicole. Through work I've been able to develop a friendship and kind of keep an eye on her. Last fall she was in an accident where a large barrel hit her and damaged disks in her back. She is unable to stand upright now. She has also lost a lot of weight. Nicole has a big beautiful yard. As I visited with her I asked her several times if I could help by getting her a food order or doing yard work or taking her shopping (she doesn't have a driver license right now). She repeatedly turned me down. Recently I asked again (for about the 4th time) and she said yes, she could use some help. She said she had what we needed so we planned to go over (Holly, the twins and myself...